When you meet the right person, you shouldn't waste more time.
A short story!
A friend of mine have been in a relationship with her boyfriend for almost 7years.she has been with him even when he had nothing, to an extent he is doing well for himself now and He is still not thinking of settling down with her.

This brings me to a question, how long does it take to study someone and know if he or she has the quality you need in a partner?

Back to my story.
This issue was really bothering her because she has given her all to this relationship. So she thought, he will propose to her in her next birthday, the birthday came and passed, nothing..

September 2019, when she was returning from work one faithful day, A particular guy was following her with his car, trying to hold a conversation with her, she refused to give in because "she is in a relationship" that is not heading anywhere...
The following day, same guy was waiting for her at that particular spot, after much persuasion from the guy, she gave in and they became friends. Mind you, she was still dating the 7 years guy oo..
One thing lead to another, the new guy became so serious with her. She asked for my advice, I told her to give him a chance and she did.
Six months later, he proposed to her and January 2021, she did her traditional and church wedding.Why waste more time when you have seen what you are looking for? She is happily married today with two kids and the first guy is unmarried till today

If she had decided to wait for the first guy, their relationship would have been 11years now . When people are celebrating 11 anniversary in marriage she will celebrating 11 years of fruitless relationship.

Stop wasting people's time, if you know you don't want to settle down with the Lady or the guy tell them on time so they can move on.

know when to move on, the red flags and handwriting are very bold, you only choose not to see them.